Key to Success
I just watch the Oprah Winfrey Show..not that I want to
commercial that show..but I have many lessons when I saw that show..and the
reason why I like that show is that Oprah always taught us something in every
episode, that is never been the opposite of Christianity concepts of live.
The last show I watched, about the Secret in live is just
amazing. I got that what everybody wants to have in this world is purely
happiness. But the main thing is that we don’t know what is in that happiness
should be. Happiness is when u has wealthy in 5 aspects. Financial,
intellectual, physical, spiritual and I kind of forgot the other one. But the
main thing I want to say is that we often see our happiness in a wrong way. We thought
that when we have money than we can be happy, but that is not the answer. If u thought
that only money that can make u happy, then don’t be surprise if there will be
more people who would do corruption. I think all the corruptors should watch
that episode.
The main point of this show is to tell us what the truly
main key are of this live, are forgiveness and gratefulness. Many times we are trapped by
our own mind that we are guilty for things that happened to our lives. And
instead of getting away from that miserable mind, we are falling down for more
negative minds that makes us trapped more deep than before, and the rest u
know..Failure, unsuccessful, pessimism, will be carried along in our lives. And
those things make us wont get out from our live now.
Forgiveness is the main key. U
should forgive ur self, and also forgive others that u accused has done wrong
to you. And the last thing is gratefulness. We often forgot to say thank to the Lord of
what we have in live. We usually grumble for what we don’t have and forgot to
thank of what we have. By focusing on what we don’t have, we’ve kind of miss our
opportunity to get success. Cause what we have in our own mind is the
negative, such as I don’t have money, I’m not skinny, I don’t have any couples,
I don’t have great things, and so on. If we see our live in the opposite way
such as; I have family; I have people who loves me; I have health; I have an
amazing God; I have a wonderful live; I have things that others don’t have; we
will see our lives in a different perspective. We will focusing on our real
target, which is; I want to be wealthy; I want to be happy; I want to be rich;
I want to be famous; and we will focus on these thing. Then we can move on more
towards to our real goals in life.
The other thing that I agreed is when one person who ask
about how to winning a competition. I like the answer that Oprah gave. There is
no competition in success. When u does competition, what is ur target? Money?
Fame? Oprah taught me good lesson. That it was for servant. What
she or Bill Gates’ targets when they start their career, is not for money, or
fame, or anything else. They jut ask God, what can I do to my others? Serves
is the main key. Then she came out with this show, which successfully
helps other to see this live. So serve first, then the rest is bonus.
That reminds me of my last week topic in my church. Vision.
To be big, we must have a great vision as well. And one of the speaker in the
show said that we have to set the target. Then we
must have intention to do it then put our attention to it, and
not just in a wish list. That thin reminds explain what often make people
failed. Cause they only have the wish list. They only have a vision, but don’t
have the intentions and attentions to it. That is WRONG! Shortly,
in life, u should have targets and then go for it. Don’t try but do it. Not Insha’Allah
but surely. Cause I do believe when we want to make something good for
others (Serves), God will definitely give His blessings upon us.
In short, in life we must do Forgiveness and
gratefulness. Then after we solve the main problem, which is in our own
self, then we must set our mind. That we live is to serve others just as we
serve God. If we have this mind set, we will definitely gonna do our
best in everything. Then we must have Visions in live, in simple
words, we must have targets! Then have intentions and attention to it.
Surely, if you do these aspects, you will get that success.
The unification of the three main power;
God, ourselves, and others; is the main capital for our happiness and success
in live.
